Check-in | Life Beyond the Bottle #2
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Are you tired of letting alcohol control your life? It’s time to take it back.
Every week, I’ll share fresh ideas, practical tools, and honest conversations about the challenges and victories of overcoming alcohol addiction. Whether you’re just starting or have been on this journey for years, this newsletter is for you.
Here’s what to expect:
- Sunday: Create – Focus on building the life you want with motivation and tools to help you shape your future.
- Wednesday: Check-in – A chance to reflect on progress, reset, and refocus.
- Friday: Shift – As the weekend approaches, we’ll discuss shifting perspectives, staying grounded, and making meaningful changes.
Sobriety isn’t just about quitting drinking—it’s about stepping into a new way of living. This newsletter is here to help you make that shift and keep moving forward.
Let’s get started, Wayne
“Recovery is something that you have to work on every single day, and it’s something that doesn’t get a day off.” – Demi Lovato.
Where Are You Right Now?
Recovery isn’t a straight line. Some days, you will feel strong and in control, while others may feel like a struggle. But one thing is certain: regularly checking in with yourself is crucial for staying grounded in recovery.
Why is it important?
Honest self-assessment is one of the most powerful tools you have in recovery. It’s about taking a moment to ask, Where am I today? Am I feeling confident, or am I struggling with something? It’s easy to gloss over these moments, but facing them head-on gives you the chance to course-correct before things spiral out of control.
How to do it:
Checking in with yourself doesn’t have to be complicated. Just find a quiet moment in your day and ask yourself these questions:
- How am I feeling physically, mentally, and emotionally?
- What has been weighing on my mind?
- Am I dealing with any cravings or urges?
- What am I proud of today?
I created this simple exercise LBTB 2 Where Are You Today In Your Recovery Journey.pdf to help you get what you’re thinking out of your head and onto paper (which is highly advisable).
The key is to be brutally honest. If you’re struggling, own that. Recognizing when things aren’t going well is the first step toward finding a solution. Recovery is about progress, not perfection.
Keep Moving Forward
No matter where you find yourself today, remember that every check-in is an opportunity to grow. Some days will be harder than others, but each day is another chance to get stronger and keep moving forward. Whether you’re feeling on top of the world or battling through a tough day, remember that you’ve made it this far and have the strength to keep going. Each check-in, no matter how small, is a step closer to the life you’re building.
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Recovery Boost: Play the Tape Through
When you’re in the grip of a craving, it can be hard to see anything beyond the immediate temptation. The urge to drink can feel so overwhelming that it’s easy to forget what happens afterward. This is where the Play the Tape Through technique comes in—it’s a simple but powerful way to remind yourself of the reality that follows giving in to a craving.
How It Works:
When you feel a craving coming on, hit pause for a moment. Instead of focusing on the short-term relief drinking might offer, play the tape through in your mind. Visualize the entire scenario, from that first drink to everything that happens afterward.
- What happens after the first drink?
- How do you feel when you’ve had too much?
- What about the next morning? How will you feel physically and emotionally?
By mentally playing out the consequences, you remind yourself of why you chose recovery in the first place. You’re no longer just thinking about the immediate satisfaction of giving in—you’re seeing the whole picture, including the regret, the hangover, and the cycle you’re working so hard to break.
Why It Helps:
- Interrupts the Craving: Playing the tape through forces you to pause and think before reacting to a craving. It breaks the automatic response and gives you time to reconsider.
- Reconnects You to Reality: Cravings can distort your thinking, making drinking seem like a good idea. But by playing the tape through, you remind yourself of the reality—the regret, the shame, and the consequences that follow.
- Strengthens Your Resolve: Every time you successfully play the tape through and choose not to drink, you build a stronger connection to your long-term recovery goals. It’s one more victory that reinforces your commitment.
Next time you feel a craving, don’t stop at the first drink—play the tape all the way through. It’s a simple but powerful tool that helps you stay in control, even when the urge feels strong.
It’s Your Recovery – Own It
Recovery isn’t a one-size-fits-all journey. What works for one person may not work for another. That’s why it’s so important to take responsibility for your recovery and make it your own. No one else can do this for you—you have to figure out what works for you and what doesn’t.
Some people find strength in meetings, while others prefer one-on-one counseling or self-reflection. Some find solace in exercise, meditation, or creative outlets. The point is there’s no universal path to follow. What matters most is finding the tools, habits, and support systems that resonate with you.
Taking ownership means accepting that you’re in control of your recovery. You’re the one who knows yourself best. When something isn’t working, it’s up to you to make adjustments. If a particular strategy or method isn’t helping, switching things up is okay. The key is to stay proactive, to keep experimenting, and to remain honest with yourself about what you need.
How to Own Your Recovery:
- Experiment and Adapt: Try different strategies and approaches. Be open to discovering new tools that help you stay grounded and motivated.
- Stay Honest: Regularly check in with yourself. Are your methods truly helping, or are they just filling space? Honesty will guide your progress.
- Be Patient: Recovery is a long-term process, and taking ownership means accepting that there will be setbacks and challenges. Patience with yourself is vital to staying committed.
Remember, it’s your recovery. No one else can walk this path for you. Own it, and take pride in building a life that works for you.
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